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Picture of the Week: Mercury in the Margins

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I love this picture because I have no idea what it means.

To me it looks like sophisticated doodling, the meanderings of a creative mind stuck in a dull situation: chemistry class, a doctor’s waiting room, a train station without a train.

I fantasize that my ignorance would be enlightened if I could only read — what’s that, French? Italian? — but maybe it wouldn’t. Perhaps the words are meaningful only in the turnabout pathways of the artist’s wandering mind.

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ressaca-padre-caguntot

I love this picture because I have no idea what it means.

To me it looks like sophisticated doodling, the meanderings of a creative mind stuck in a dull situation: chemistry class, a doctor’s waiting room, a train station without a train.

I fantasize that my ignorance would be enlightened if I could only read — what’s that, French? Italian? — but maybe it wouldn’t. Perhaps the words are meaningful only in the turnabout pathways of the artist’s wandering mind.

Click to continue reading “Picture of the Week: Mercury in the Margins”

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Capricorn, Rapunzel, and the Function of Stone

Yesterday marked the fourth workshop in our Astro-Play series at Yoga Grounds, with Vera on yoga and myself on astrology. Yesterday’s theme was the process of goal-setting and goal-getting, as prismed through the Capricorn archetype, as illustrated through the Grimm Brothers fairy-tale Rapunzel.

I’m working on fleshing the ideas out into a full-length article but I’m itching to share a couple themes that I didn’t get to in the short time allotted. I hope participants will find this an interesting supplement to the workshop (and that others will find it merely interesting).

The recurring symbol I’m most interested in exploring is the use of stone in the Rapunzel story. It is especially intriguing, I think, since Capricorn is an earth sign — signaling practicality, patience, tactility, solidity and determination. These are all traits that can assist in setting and reaching goals. But look at what happens to the image of stone at three key points throughout the story.

Stone Wall: The first appearance of stone comes when the poor miller, father of Rapunzel herself, jumps the stone wall dividing his garden from the witch’s. The wall is meant to be a boundary, a dividing line that signals a limitation, a law, a social custom that demarcates one person’s property from another’s. But the miller steals over the wall at night — breaches the accepted boundary when he believes he won’t be seen — in order to take something that the law says he must not take: radishes that his pregnant wife craves that are growing not in his garden, but in the garden of the witch next door.

The wall is a symbol for limits (when we stonewall something, we put up our hand and say “no,” refusing all arguments and pleas). But it turns out to be an ineffective one. In the context of pursuing goals, the message here is that, faced with a powerful craving or temptation — and lacking the capacity for resistance — we are vulnerable to crossing the line that separates achievement of the goal from lack thereof. Unless we are aware of the temptation, and work consciously to build our own strength against it, we will continually find ways to breach the wall. We will repeatedly keep ourselves separate from our goal.

For example, if our goal is to lose weight, we may breach the wall through excuses like, “Just one cookie won’t hurt” or “She spent so long making dinner — it would be impolite to refuse.” In our workshop, we looked at a cross-section of a stone wall and noted how much it looks like a spine — each vertebra stacked upon the next. When that wall is not strong, we become spineless against our temptations. In fact, the idea of “spinelessness” seemed to echo the miller’s actions not just because he stole the radishes (he apparently never considered knocking on the witch’s door and explaining the situation) but also because, ultimately, he gave into the witch’s demand for the baby Rapunzel as exorbitant payment for his crime.

If you find yourself prone to breaching the boundaries you have set for yourself — whether in pursuit of a goal or for some other purpose — you might consider doing some spine-strengthening yoga. We did some last night, preceded by muscle-testing with various substances. After the yoga, we muscle-tested again and found ourselves much better able to resist things like coffee, sugar and other temptations that tend to thwart our goals.

Stone Tower: The witch indeed takes Rapunzel, on the day she is born, as restitution for her father’s crime. When Rapunzel is 12 years old, the witch locks her in the topmost room of a stone tower without door or stairs. Now the image of stone — of the patience, determination and solidity that were utterly lacking in her father and in the stone wall — has become a tall, imposing structure. Much in contrast to the long, low line of stones along the ground, which was probably crumbling and easy to breach, the tower is imagined as a rigid, impenetrable structure that is impervious to callers who lack the secret words.

The stone tower is so impenetrable, in fact, that it imprisons the girl Rapunzel in a state of innocence (literally, not-knowing) — infantilized and atrophied at a point in life when she should be growing, blossoming and experiencing the pleasures of the world on the ground. This is the polar opposite of the spinelessness of the stone wall. Here, the spine is rigid from the imposition of too much authority, from the totalitarian-style treatment of Rapunzel by the witch. And after a time, certainly, the witch’s demeanor becomes so engraved on Rapunzel’s psyche that the girl begins to believe, herself, that she cannot exist outside the stone walls of a high, impenetrable tower: She internalizes the rigidity imposed upon her from without.

This might not be so terrible if growth or juice or lust for life existed for Rapunzel in the confines of the tower. But the suggestion is one of sameness, boredom and loneliness — a stultifying existence contrary to growth and blossoming. This might look, in modern life, like a person who has stayed too long in the same job “for the sake of the children” or “because Dad always wanted me to take over the family business.” Reluctance to risk other people’s needs or desires can imprison our own passion, enslave us to other people’s ideas of who we should be. Obligation, submission, fear, guilt and shame all live in this place.

If you find yourself pursuing a goal that has lost its juice for you — because of obligation, politeness, habit, whatever — your yoga might be one of flexibility. Like the ability to stand up for yourself and adhere to important limits, flexibility is also centered on the spine. Think about the obligations, assumptions and habits that have built up around your goal. Do some work on building flexibility in both your mind and your body, and see what kind of twists and turns the “can’ts” and “shoulds” in your life end up taking.

Stone Well: The prince begins visiting Rapunzel each night, and the two hatch a plan to get her out of the tower. But the girl lets it slip that she has a lover and, furious, the witch cuts off Rapunzel’s famous hair and throws her — pregnant with twins — out of the tower to wander in the desert. That night, the prince comes and, when he sees the witch in Rapunzel’s room, falls off the tower, blinding himself on the thorns below. He, too, wanders the desert for many years. And then one day, he hears Rapunzel singing as she draws water from a well.

While the tower represents rigidity, and the wall represents spinelessness, the stone well represents practical, purposeful and effective limits. The well is both a signal that something unseen is close by — that the goal is within reach — and a structure to protect that thing while also allowing access to it: neither totally confining like the tower nor totally open like the wall. Even imagistically, a well is halfway between a wall and a tower: a low wall, really, in the circular shape of a tower, which can be entered from above but that descends far below the earth to welcome water into its deep, narrow bowl.

In astrology and other symbol systems, water represents, among other things, the feeling function. Drawn from deep within the earth, the suggestion is one of unconscious feeling being brought up into consciousness. Capricorn, like Rapunzel in the desert, must survive on its own, drawing on its own resources to climb to the top. This process is often practical, tedious, tangible and necessarily patient: earth energy. Rapunzel learns how to survive the worst imaginable circumstances. Now, when water appears in the story, we know that she is ready for relationship to flow back into her life.

Capricorn is usually signaled by a mountain goat, but its esoteric animal is the mythic sea goat. Half-goat, half-fish, it embodies the intrepid independence of the mountain goat while also suggesting the need to integrate the feeling function that lives opposite it in the chart, in Cancer. In traditional astrology, Cancer and its ruler, the Moon, are identified with the mother, but in Huber astrology that honor goes to Saturn, the ruler of Capricorn. In either case, the suggestion is that Rapunzel has now become an integrated mother who can draw on deep feeling for her children while also imposing the fair limits they will need in order to become thriving adults.

And the love relationship for which Rapunzel is now ready is drawn on her own established internal authority — her knowledge that she has built her own foundation from which to act freely. She is not a dewy dumpling confined in a tower or a frightened girl thrown into the desert. She has survived the desert, raised two children in it and become a bona fide woman on her own terms. The pinnacle of the story is that, within this harsh environment, she even finds water — finds the capacity to love and relate, to give and take, drawn up from the harsh ground of her solitary survival. The stone well surrounding this new adventure is an assurance (or a caution?) that she will neither succumb to the dewy nature of naive love, nor allow it to calcify into a prison of her own making.

These are the balance points in the pursuit of any goal: How to observe the limits without becoming enslaved to them; how to stick with a plan while maintaining flexibility within it; how to keep alive passion for the work while also surviving the harsh desert in which you may find yourself. Strength and flexibility; passion and practicality.

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In the end, the blind prince follows the sound of Rapunzel’s voice to the well. The family is reunited, Rapunzel’s tears restore the prince’s sight, and the couple and their children go off to live in the castle — happily ever after, of course: the ultimate goal.

The castle is a metaphor for the final fulfillment of Rapunzel’s dream. She has gone from victim of her father’s tender spinelessness, to victim of her stepmother’s rigid fury, to solitary survivor, to the embodiment of alive, integrated wholeness.

The delightful thing about a castle is that it is so complex. There are turrets and moats, towers and keeps, chapels and stables and kitchens and courts. It is really a symbol of the rich inner life each of us has, of all 360 degrees of possibility embodied in the horoscope chart. Some rooms get used more than others; some are uncomfortable; some are adored. Some are open in the summer and closed in the winter. Some are private while others are public.

The possibilities are, as they say, endless.

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The other theme I would like to have touched on in yesterday’s workshop was the appearance of various head coverings throughout the Rapunzel story. Though the Grimm Brothers might not have envisioned it this way, the phrase “witch’s hat” conjures a clear and striking image in modern culture. A handsome prince must necessarily come with a jeweled crown. Of course Rapunzel herself is distinguished by her long hair — and then by her shorn locks later in the story. We can even imagine the miller with a dilapidated cap and his wife with a scarf tied over her hair.

As Capricorn symbolizes the archetype of individuation, of distinguishing oneself from others in the process of fulfilling your destiny — and as its energy is encompassed in the 10th house at the top of the chart — it seems appropriate to look at how we treat our hair, our hats, our brains and other things up top for a look at another aspect of this archetype.

But that’s for another time.

Image credits: wall, tower, well, castle
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Go away, big monsters

Our two-year-old son, whom we call the Dragon, has always had a hard time getting to sleep. Most nights it takes an hour for him to find a breath that is steady enough for dreamland. It’s often another half-hour before we can tiptoe out of his bedroom and quietly shut the door, our own breaths tight and thin in hopes of not waking him.

During this 90-minute toss-and-turning jag, the Dragon sometimes whispers under his breath – a light, lilting babble like a little brook with its volume down low. Or, alternately, a sweet, innocent version of the disconcerting jungle whispers in the American TV drama Lost just before something creepy happens. In any case, I’ve never been able to decipher what he says when he’s whispering just before sleep.

Until two nights ago, when I distinctly heard him command: “Go away, big monsters.”

My first response was a little internal maternal heartbreak – first, that this dear, sweet child felt he had to deal with the monsters on his own; and second, that he was even seeing / hearing / imagining monsters to begin with.

My second response was the thought, “I’m the big, strong, wise adult here. I have to do something smart. And helpful. And now.” And then: “Dammit.” And then: “Now.”

I don’t know whether it’s built into the DNA of parenthood or into the sociological knee-jerk response structure of our society, but my initial impulse was to tell the Dragon, “There’s no such thing as monsters.” But I didn’t.

I didn’t because, although we might believe in the objective truth of the statement “There’s no such thing as monsters,” there is a deeper truth that this child needed validated in that moment: that he was, in fact, experiencing monsters. Infinitely more than scientific explanations, he needed me to be compassionate – literally, to “feel with” him in that state, in his fear of monsters, and to acknowledge the truth of his fear.

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I see the birth chart as a collection of archetypes arranged in a way that describes the native’s particular experience of life. An archetype is essentially a universal experience: a relationship, role or situation that is a basic part of everyone’s psychological makeup. There are archetypes of mother, father, child, savior, teacher, warrior, lover, rebel, nomad, god, goddess, addict, shadow, trickster, despot. And many more. Including monster.

Archetypes often show up in our dreams or imaginings or artwork as literal pictures or symbols. Those archetypes that we’re having trouble with in life may show up as frightening pictures, like venomous snakes or axe murderers or big monsters. The picture gives form to the problem, helps us to see it and address it — often much better than if it remained a slippery, abstract, cerebral description. Bringing the problem from Logos to Soma, from mind to body, means we can grapple with it through all of our senses. We can meet it on its own terms.

The monster in a dream may be an emotion that the child (or the adult) is having trouble processing: frustration about potty training, sadness about a dog who has died, the perils of separation anxiety. It could be a secret he’s keeping: abuse, illness, something “bad” he’s done that he doesn’t want to admit. It could be a situation he doesn’t know how to handle: An overly-demanding teacher, a new brother or sister, a move to a different home. It could be the bigness of growing up, of leaving babyhood behind and becoming a little boy and all that that means.

Symbols demand that we respond, at least initially, in their own language. This is especially true when the person visited by the symbol is a child: Children live and breathe metaphor. The logic-based response, “There’s no such thing as monsters; you don’t have to be afraid,” takes them out of that reality and plunges them into one that makes as little sense to them as monsters and magic make to us wise old adults. Because, in their reality, there are monsters. We’re not going to logic the monsters away. And suggesting there aren’t any only implies that the child is lying, or loony. And we know he is neither.

And maybe when we – or rather, I – read astrological charts, I would do well to linger in the images a little longer, to help the client envision Pluto and ask what it wants; to make friends with Saturn, share a drink together and relish its wisdom; to speak kindly to the needy Moon and wait patiently for the response. We don’t always know in which planets lurk monsters, waiting in the closet to visit our clients’ dreams or relationships or habits. Maybe none of them; maybe all. But we can facilitate that knowledge. Maybe some monsters are friendly, though they appear menacing. Maybe some are scared themselves. Maybe some just feel lost and are trying to make their way back home. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

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But there is also the readiness of the client to consider. This child I was confronted with two nights ago, who in turn was confronting monsters, is only two years old. He is not yet ready to understand explanations about archetypes, symbols and metaphors. He is not yet ready for a discussion of his feelings beyond telling me what they are: “Scared.” “Sad.” “Happy.” It turns out he is also not ready to imagine what the monsters might want when they visit.

So we just got a little more familiar with the monsters. We talked about what they looked like (hairy, with eyes and teeth), how many there were (ten: interesting, that) and where they gathered (definitely in the Dragon’s room, definitely not in Mama and Daddy’s room). But when I asked what they wanted, the Dragon remained silent. He just knew he needed them to go away. So I left that question for sometime later.

Instead, I marched out to the kitchen, dug around in some cupboards and finally located the Monster Spray I keep on hand for just such occasions. I returned to the bedroom shouting, “Go away, monsters! You’re not welcome here! You leave the Dragon alone!” I circled the room’s periphery, spraying walls, corners and furniture so no monsters could enter that night, so the Dragon felt safe.

And within literally – and I do mean literally – ten seconds, he was fast asleep.

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The Dragon’s dad, Alan, was out that night, and when he returned home, I told him what had happened. The next morning, when the Dragon awoke, Alan asked him all about the monsters. Then he led his son by the hand to the hall closet and took down a feather duster. “I know Mama sprayed for monsters,” he said. “But if they come back, you can use this to fight them off.”

The Dragon took the duster earnestly by the handle and brandished it like a sword. “Go away, big monsters!” he shouted, stabbing at the air, practicing. “Go away!” He ran all over the house fighting monsters.

“Why didn’t I think of that?” I mused. “I just protected him. I didn’t let him take care of the problem himself.” I felt badly, then, that I had taken the monsters into my own hands and let the Dragon sit back without an active role.

And then, after a cup of coffee and a few musing hours, I realized that Alan and I had acted in true Sun and Saturn fashion: Myself to protect our son, to engender a sense of safety; and Alan to empower him to go out on his own, to fight any monsters he might face. Both roles are necessary: A child must feel a certain level of safety and security before he can venture out to become the hero of his own life.

This truth is reflected in developmental psychology’s attachment theory as well as in the natural archetypes symbolized in the birth chart.

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The next night, the Dragon again awoke screaming. “Tigers!” he cried, flailing his arms. “No! No! Tigers!” His little face, even with eyes closed, was anguished and fearful.

Breathing soothing and encouraging words, I groped for the feather duster and pressed it into his palm. He squeezed his hand around it and dropped back into the pillow. His body relaxed, and his breathing evened out. He was asleep again. He had not even opened his eyes. The whole episode lasted, again, only about ten seconds.

He slept until morning, the hero of his dreams.

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What is Depth Astrology?

Carl Jung said that analogy- making is the central organizing principle of the psyche.

In other words, we continually and spontane- ously create images to make sense of our lives.

To wit:

“I feel like my head’s going to explode!”
“She thinks she’s my mother.”
“There’s a wall between us.”

We perceive that many of the things we go through (if not all of them) are like something else. Images of those something elses come out when we speak, when we feel, when we dream, when we make art, when we imagine — so that we can see and know ourselves better. It is often quite difficult, and sometimes even impossible, to look directly at ourselves. But to look at something that is like ourselves, well, that is a great deal easier, and often more productive.

The horoscope chart is the only metaphor in the world that reflects your — and only your – psyche with the degree of complexity, nuance and completeness needed to accurately unravel your continually evolving life experiences.

Astrology is a complex system for organizing the analogy-making that we do all the time. Your horoscope chart is populated with the major metaphors, called archetypes, that your psyche naturally uses to describe its experiences. Those archetypes exist in an ordered format that, engaged correctly, can help focus and streamline your self-understanding. And because your chart is unique in all the world, the archetypes are arranged there in the nuanced and unique way that reflects you — and only you.

Your chart, then, is the mythic structure of your individual psyche, told in metaphorical language. And because it is metaphorical, the chart enables you to grasp your own story in a way that is often obstructed by more naked confrontation of the self. Your chart helps you understand yourself and the situations you face through the fertile medium of metaphor.

Depth astrology is a practice of engaging life’s major metaphors, or archetypes, in the precise way that you experience them in your individual psyche. Depth astrology readings guide you through the process of making sense of your own story through the images that best describe your experience.

And then, by understanding your own story, you can begin to write it to your own specifications.

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